What Married Women Really Need – Marriage is the beautiful bond and commitment between two non identical persons. Two individuals who belong from different worlds and have different up bringing are brought much closer to each other. This closeness is not only physical but they become soul mates if they understand, love and respect each other’s feelings.
The women are the delicate part of the nature both in her biological structure and in her emotional feelings. So after marriage she wants from her husband love, respect and stability. The stability in all ways as the emotional stability and financial stability.
Women have four emotional needs to be fulfilled by a man:
- To be loved and to love.
- The belongingness.
- Good self image
- Need for autonomy
How to give emotional stability:
TELLING HER THAT YOU LOVE HER: It does not necessarily means that you say her “I love you “, daily but to become her admirer, to walk with her by holding her hand, to appreciate her in her doings.
TO FORGIVE HER AT HER MISTAKES: Without forgiveness no relationship can be sustained. To criticize a women at trifles’ hurt her self esteem and make the relationship weak. While she does something wrong think that no one is perfect, she want and deserve your willingness. This forgiveness bloom the healthy relationship.
GIVE HER QUALITY TIME: Conversation with her in positive way and spending quality time with her by talking about kids, their problems, her likes and dislikes as you talked with your girl friend. Mostly men spend time in home by sitting in front of TV, browsing internet or reading books and say that they are with their wives from many hours. It ruins the matrimonial relationship and bond between them become weaker day by day.
SHOW AFFIRMATIVE ATTITUDE: If you become habitual in showing negative response to your wife and kids it will push you away from them. But if you learn to say “yes “you will notice how much the relationship improved.
LISTEN WELL: The women want that her husband share each and every thing with her. She wants that he listen her not with ears but with his heart. It is disheartens when she realizes that her husband not listening her.
BE AFFECTIONATE: The little words as “please “and “thank you” make the relationship successful and strong. The unexpected kiss or hug makes her happy with pleasing attitude. Take the responsibility of her with all your best doings for her.