We all know that one of the most difficult things in this world is dealing with small kids, you need to understand that it is not your kids that make it impossible, actually that is your own behavior that make them hard an stubborn, when you say yes to become Mum, you need to ask one question to yourself, are you really ready to deal with all these mighty responsibilities?
If you have kids and you don’t have love and care to handle them then it is your fault not their so you need to be good to them rather that punishing them and they would be absolutely fine, every kid understand only one language and that is the language of love when you deal him or her with all your love then there are no way that they say NO to you, but still you have the issue of dealing with them then here are some tips for you.
Natural Bullheaded:-I know some families that has born bullies in their houses, they not only bully their siblings, but they bully their parents and their elder relatives too, they have some kind of aggressive nature in themselves and they always show you a particular behavior that no one can make them do anything, but let me tell you one thing,
these are the easiest kids in the group of stubborn kids, you just need to deal them with great love and care and let them think that they are doing what they wanted to do and you can make them do whatever you want to, you need to be really smart and really careful about that and you will be just fine, you just need to see what are the variables that can change the equation.
See The Bright Side Of Boldness: – do you know one thing about the boldness that they were born with? 100s of people pay thousands to get that an they visit many psychiatrist to get that courage and that boldness and if your kid was born with that boldness then you should appreciate that’s and learn the ways to make this quality in good way and see if you can help him using these qualities in good ways, you will see that these qualities would not only make him a perfect human being, but that will help him in his coming life and his careers too.
Turn Their Stubborn Into Strong-Willed: – one o the most positive way to treat them is make them use their stubbornness to fulfill some hard and some very difficult tasks, I know one thing and I am saying that with full confidence that if you treat them perfectly and if you know how to deal their stubbornness properly you could give a perfect and ideal kid to this society, if they don’t like No from you as a answer of anything then you can imagine how cool these kid would be and how successful you can make them if they would never say no to any difficulty, you just need to be tremendous loving and positive with these kids and soon you will know how to use their stubborn behavior in your own favor.
I know you love your kids, I am just saying that let them see this too, and never yell at them the way you don’t want them to yell at you or anyone else, they will behave the way you do, not like you told them to behave, they observe and make their own rules they don’t follow your instructions.